Call me a feminist, a women with a lot of attitude, or whatever. But as a man if you do not know to respect your opposite sex who are women, who are supposedly your equal beings and if you are the kind, who will justify for fellow men who have involved themselves in sexual abuses, rapes, harassment ill treatment of women in present and past, I will make up my mind right away that its not worth getting across my views to you.
I haven’t voiced out my concerns because of the terrible incident that has affected a 23 year old very badly and has put the entire mankind???!!! to shame. I am writing this today only because I have heard, read and also know women who have been affected throughout their life because of such evil behavior. This is only an attempt to record my observations on what every girl goes through in their day to day life.
To begin with, please give me some real cases / incidents of a woman or a girl involved in sexual violence with a man in our country. On the other hand, compare these numbers in a vice-versa scenario.
Next, it leaves me in complete disgust to learn that our hungry-craving-violent men didn’t want to leave even a 6 months old baby. I mean, why/how/what can they do with that baby? Its a god damn baby. Read BABY. Kindly explain how this baby should have behaved and protected herself so that she didn’t instigate those men who indulged in such a cruel action with her.
A women is nothing less than an object of sex – that’s the freaking truth and reality in our country. At some work places, the environment of work is so bad that she has to succumb to her bosses (who are usually men) and is left with no support. If she is vocal about her opinion, her continuation at that work place is at stake. At night, she has to be back home by the mentioned curfew time. If she is married, she is constantly suspected of her dignity. She drinks/smokes, she is considered a bad omen. She fights for equality, its mocked as yet another mob group of women screeching for senseless demands. I do not endorse that whatever a women involves herself in, is a right thing. But the underlying truth is that she is forced into several things without a choice.
Having stated certain facts of what women go through as a routine, there are also some women who take these stigmas to their advantage and start involving in crimes that have also impacted a lot of men and led them into distress. But, in my personal view, the affected is still a majority of women in the name of sexual abuse/assault/harassment/violence.
The only hope to make this country a better place is to train our children when they are young to respect each other. But for that to happen, the kids should be allowed to grow in the first place.
Hope humanity prevails!
Disclaimer : This article is not intended to generalize men of our country. Because, I believe there are always exceptions.