Axe your EX – 5 tips to forget the fantasies and move on!

My best friend complains to me about his ex even now. True that love is always like a two-sided coin. You either accept or reject completely. Most of us have gone through relationships and find it a challenge to deal with it during a break up. Want to move on, but don’t know how? I wouldn’t say its simple. But here are some useful tips that can facilitate you to move on.

1. Acceptance
Accept the fact that the relationship is over. Don’t cling to your relationship and try to patch your broken heart with your ex again. You may be the strongest one emotionally but when you are hurt, accept that it will take time to heal your pain, for you can’t get over your ex in 2 days whom you loved for 2 years. Stay calm with yourself, don’t feel guilty about anything and believe that things happened for good.

2. Speak out your emotions
Most of us tend to become fragile and can’t trust anybody with ease. Remember that your friends are always there to cheer you. Develop the trust in someone and speak your heart out to him or her. Don’t think of what others feel about you when you speak about your ex. Letting go off your emotions and thoughts can really lessen your burden and make you feel better.

3. Keep yourself busy
Move around and work more. Shift your focus on a progressive path. This time can be fruitful for you to pursue the most passionate things. I know people who learnt a couple of languages to keep themselves going from their ex and it turned out to be very productive for them. If you are working, engage more quality time at your work place and never reflect your personal self there. This will ensure growth in your career as well help you become more mature and move on with life.

4. Live the moment
Not being philosophical here but isn’t it true to live your present life? You may never know that there is someone who loves you madly and want to make you his or hers. Give them a chance and never distrust their love for you. I accept that your break up has left you in pain, depression, disbelief, hatred, and etc. but try understanding what your current love can mean to you. Don’t suspect your present love and live with the moment.

5. Go for a vacation
Finally, go to new places for a vacation with your loved ones. Avoid places you have gone with your ex to trigger past memories. Pose for photographs, be at your crazy best, and do all the chilling at your holiday. It’s just the will to stay happy no matter what that can help you move on.

All said easily but to practice, it’s a virtue. Always remember that no one can impact your life as much as you do. It’s your life and you are the only person who has authority to do what you wish to do with your life. Nevertheless, hold a smile always.

CELEBRITY QUOTES ON BREAK UPS AND MOVING ON:

“I’m not sure what the future holds but I do know that I’m going to be positive and not wake up feeling desperate. As my dad said ‘Nic, it is what it is, it’s not what it should have been, not what it could have been, it is what it is’.”
—Nicole Kidman

“I met the right person. I don’t like being without him.” – Angelina Jolie

Honestly, I think I can be better. My marriage is only going to help me. I found a person I can talk to and a person who is going to be by my side through thick and thin. Elin has instilled a lot of confidence in me in all aspects of my life. – Tiger Woods

8 comments

  1. Desiree maripane

    I realy enjoyed the tips&dat helpd me 2 muv on&stop thinking about my ex,yes i lvd him but he kept on hurting me,up until i learned 2 let him go,he diddnt dserv ma tears coz doz hu does,wil neva let me cry..ur tips helped me a lot

  2. saket mishra

    i m still not able to let her go…
    i m still missing all those thngs we did together….
    i dont know y but after knowing every thng abt her i m still in lone with her…
    i m not able to stop my mind think abut her….
    i acctually did every thng for her so y she did this to me………….y

    • Michael Bueno

      @sake mishra = its really bad in that situation that you did everything but in the end its like u are useless. they said everything happens for a reason but how could you forget the person who makes u smile, inspired, and strong belief that u will stay forever… The only thing i was doing to forget my ex just to think if he think the same thing that i do… if a person will still to be with you they reach you and stay with you…

  3. shivank singh

    we fought for about a month den she said she needs a space nd wants a relation to b carried over again when we are in the same town….should i trust her again for the same??

  4. Michael Bueno

    too difficult if you really fell in love with the person you thought you were… from my side, i always try to listen the songs we used to listen in order to get over it and never look to his photo though i have one photo kept on my mobile… very hard….

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